Worst "Bachelor Party" Ever?

I attended what was supposed to be a bachelor party for a long time friend in NYC this past weekend. The whole thing was cut short by the bachelor getting violently ill and passing out by 10 PM after 1 beer, 1/2 a glass of wine, and a fantastic Italian dinner. To me, this basically cancelled the bachelor party, so those of us not taking care of the groom went to a comedy show and bar-hopping around NY. Normally, I'd be railing against him for extreme douchebaggery, but NOT THIS TIME! I place full blame on the mother of the groom and the bride-to-be for bombarding the poor guy with frantic calls about errors on the wedding program, final RSVP's, and BS bickering between both sides of the family. Seriously? You really can't leave the bachelor alone for 36 hours to let him just have fun with his friends? Between the weeks leading up to the wedding and the rest of his life, you are the very same people that are going to strip him of the will to live. Is it absolutely mandatory that you get a head start on his life of misery? F-you to you people for stealing a rare weekend of fun from an all-around good guy!